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Pieces of a cohesive whole were published in December 1997 in 360 pages by Binesh-e-Naw Publications by Ms. Pooneh Moghimi.
Ms. Pooneh Moghimi is a clinical psychologist who found many fans on her Instagram page after the publication of this book.
A book of fragments of a coherent whole; Secrets about Reconciling with Relationships and People
In his popular book, Pooneh Moghimi talks about the simplest and at the same time the most vague flow of life before us. Connect with others and find goals that we may not be aware of or ignore. But the path of life is never exactly in line with our planning and goals. That is why in life we have to find a coherent whole by finding meaningful pieces.
This book has attracted so much attention from the audience that it reached its fifth edition in less than a month. The main theme of this book is psychological issues and relationships between people. How we can find new meaning in ourselves and that sometimes we need to be alone with ourselves so that we can have a better look at our relationship with ourselves.
This book is not a novel with a long and ups and downs story. But you can see signs of the story in the heart of the sentences. Another feature of the book is that unlike most psychology books, it does not offer false positive thinking. Rather, it invites you to build a smooth path for yourself with realism.
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In part of this book Pieces of a cohesive whole, we read :
Perhaps life is finding parts of ourselves in fragments of a cohesive whole.
A find that lasts as long as a lifetime.
And the pieces that are everywhere and it is enough for us to be in their path, then if we are conscious, we may see parts of ourselves. Parts of ourselves in relationships and in the people we experience, in the situations we find ourselves in, in the movies we watch, in the history we browse, and even in an alley that has no pedestrians and the wind caresses its trees without the presence of spectators. Maybe that’s life.
We see life not as a whole but as everyday details. In fact, we are in a “moment” of an eternal present time, and perhaps that moment is all that is called a “goal”; A goal called living. Dealing with a piece of life and then finding an unconscious piece of ourselves. Perhaps life is an attempt to integrate and find more parts of ourselves, and in this endeavor we are constantly confronted with the events of life. This book is fragments of a coherent whole. A whole that is not yet complete but is on the way to being found and coming out of obscurity. Maybe this book can awaken parts of you and help you find your missing parts.
Also in other parts of the book we read pieces of a coherent whole:
Intimacy means understanding and feeling a person with all one’s being and without any judgment or comparison; It means being present in silence. This is a thin thread of intimacy that is created in a short moment. What keeps the relationship healthy is the repetition of these brief intimacies full of presence and observation. In fact, these short and simple intimacies make the relationship deep and meaningful and can be an ointment for our inner loneliness.
We need time to accept that we have to say goodbye to certain people, situations and circumstances. Time must pass. Our minds must create thousands of compelling stories to slowly approach the moment of farewell. No matter what we decide to do or keep ourselves suspended, there are moments of goodbye. Today if not, a few more years.
The truth is that running away does not help us. In farewells, there is pain, hidden pain, can it not be a painful farewell at all? If it’s been a long time since we’ve noticed we’re close to saying goodbye, we’d better not fool ourselves. It is better not to turn pain into suffering.
* We expect someone, something or a force beyond us to teach us to fly, to fly over pain and suffering. The truth is that the story of flight is an old story that has failed.
Flight has never been and never will be for us. Flying is the story of birds. We are people who walk on our feet and touch the world with our hands.
Our story is about seeing and feeling and touching. With the same body and the same mind!
* Feeling happy is feeling the path we are trying to complete ourselves, but it is not a matter of finishing or not doing it at all, it is a matter of the effort we make along the way. The harder the effort and the more challenging the path, the deeper the feeling of happiness, especially if we can finish the path.
* In grief, the world becomes heavy and time passes slowly but eventually passes. On certain anniversaries and certain months in which bitter events occur, we will experience grief and anxiety again. Because the body subconsciously notices the approach of a specific time association, approaching a bitter anniversary. Therefore, do not despair of the presence of grief in approaching bitter anniversaries.
Grief and anxiety come and go after a few days, and every year this grief becomes more bearable.
Intimacy means understanding and feeling a person with all one’s being and without any judgment or comparison; It means being present in silence. This is a thin thread of intimacy that is created in a short moment. What keeps the relationship healthy is the repetition of these brief intimacies full of presence and observation. In fact, these short and simple intimacies make the relationship deep and meaningful and can be an ointment for our inner loneliness.
We need time to accept that we have to say goodbye to certain people, situations and circumstances. Time must pass. Our minds must compose thousands of compelling stories to calmly approach the moment of farewell. No matter what we decide to do or keep ourselves suspended, there are moments of goodbye. Today if not, a few more years. The truth is that running away does not help us. In farewells, there is pain, hidden pain, can it not be a painful farewell at all? If it’s been a long time since we’ve noticed we’re close to saying goodbye, we’d better not fool ourselves. It is better not to turn pain into suffering.
* Must forgive. We must forgive ourselves for all the foolishness, the bitter choices, and for all the evils we have done. When forgiveness begins, the road is seen to continue. The road we are still traveling on and still going on. When we put the burden of sin on the ground, our steps become lighter.
* We can never change the world outside of ourselves. We must learn to remain silent and surrender to the world outside of us. Let him go his own way and see what this passage will eventually teach us. What will change inside us? Our internal currents are under our control. Our inner world is in our will. It is only in the face of this world that we will never feel helpless.
Our inner world is part of our identity. It is part of a will that we may have lost for a long time.
A book that when we hold it, it is as if we are sitting at the foot of a friend who is having tea with us and talking. So intimate and comfortable ….
This book is written for people who want to get closer to their inner world with more contemplation and get acquainted with a part of the unknown world of their psyche. Psychoanalysis has been used in this direction
Is. In the text of the book, unconscious defense mechanisms, including escape routes, self-deception methods, etc., are described and ways to fight and neutralize them are presented. Also possible conflicts in human relationships
The obvious and the concept of loneliness are briefly described. Thinking about oneself is the ultimate goal of the book.
About the author:
Pooneh Moghimi, born in 1982, is a psychologist and psychoanalyst. He also completed his education in clinical psychology and at the master’s level. She is currently working with Tara Counseling Center.
He writes about beautiful and unaffected psychological issues and does not consider loneliness as a defect and tries to grow and change and change people’s attitudes.
Pooneh Moghimi’s posts on her Instagram page are examples of note-taking for book writing.
He works with the slogan “loneliness is not a defect” and most of his writings on this page revolve around this sentence.
Educational and professional background:
* PhD student in psychology
*Master of Clinical Psychology
* Has a degree in narrative psychotherapy from Utrecht University, with a scholarship
* Has a degree in prevention, diagnosis and treatment of post-traumatic stress disorder from the Netherlands, with a scholarship
* Has a degree in short-term psychotherapy
* Expert in health radio network, “Stories and People” program in 2016
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