the owl was a bakers daughter

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Title: Daddy’s daughter

Author: Maureen Murdoch

Translator: Sarah Sargolzaei

Publisher: Culture of Life Foundation

Subject: Women, femininity, children, parents, girls

Age category: Adult

Cover: Paperback

Number of pages: 335 p

Language: Farsi

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the owl was a bakers daughter by Maureen Murdoch is a successful author of The Deep Woman. Daddy’s daughter is in the category of psychology books. This book describes the relationship between fathers and daughters in simple and clear language.

Of course, this does not mean that mothers should not read this book, but it is recommended for parents who have a daughter and people who want to have children.

Dokhtarbaba presents the theories and interviews that the author has conducted during his working life, and traces the theories of the famous psychologist “Carl Gustav Jung”. Daddy’s Daughter’s book helps parents and daughters shape their relationships based on the right principles so that both parents and children know that with strong love and attention, strong destructive attachments must be prevented.

Introducing Baba’s Daughter by Maureen Murdoch
The hero of most girls’ lives is their father. He is a strong man and supporter of his daughter who tries to make her an independent and willing woman by meeting her material and emotional needs.

But some fathers go to extremes in loving and so-called paternalistic ways. This father-daughter relationship goes so deep that she is now the father’s minor daughter and her name is “Daddy’s daughter”.

But how good is it to be a daddy’s daughter? Does not the strong attachment of father and daughter cause the girl to lose her independence and feminine identity? What is the role of parents in this education? Baba’s daughter book entitled “Baba’s daughter; The Blessings and Adversities of Being a Daddy’s Daughter ”answers all of these questions.

About Baba’s daughter; The blessings and calamities of being a father’s daughter
Baba’s Daughter by Maureen Murdoch is a successful author of The Deep Woman. Daddy’s daughter is in the category of psychology books.

This book describes the relationship between fathers and daughters in simple and clear language. Of course, this does not mean that mothers should not read this book, but it is recommended for parents who have a daughter and people who want to have children.

Dokhtarbaba presents the theories and interviews that the author has conducted during his working life, and traces the theories of the famous psychologist “Carl Gustav Jung”. Daddy’s Daughter’s book helps parents and daughters shape their relationships based on the right principles so that both parents and children know that with strong love and attention, strong destructive attachments must be prevented.

Summary of the book Daddy’s Daughter
Baba’s daughter’s book is written in two parts in simple language. The first part of the book, entitled “How is Daddy’s daughter?”, Has three chapters. In the first part, the author examines the different types of paternalism and states that each method has its own complexities and issues.

In this section, Murdoch says that the type and quality of girls ‘relationships with their fathers affect the style of girls’ relationships in the future and, more importantly, their self-knowledge and the ability of their tools. At the beginning of the book, he states that recognizing various paternalistic practices affects various aspects of a woman’s individual and social life.

The “good father” method is the first method the author mentions. This is somehow the most ideal possible form of fatherhood. Such a father loves his daughter without any expectations and raises her independently to always be self-sufficient in life.

The “absent father” is a father who is never present in his daughter’s life. Sometimes this absence occurs with the death of the father and sometimes the father leaves the child. The daughter of such a father is always thirsty for love from others.

The “cute father” always treats his daughter like a child. He gives everything to his daughter. Unfortunately, the character of such girls is always dependent on others.

The “passive father” is a father who has given up his fatherly role. Daughters’ relationships with such fathers are usually broken.

A “seductive father” is a father who makes his daughter dependent on him in inappropriate ways. Such fathers may even sexually abuse their daughters.

“Dominant fathers” cause insecurity and fear in their daughters by coercion and command.

The “addicted father” is accustomed to giving orders and commanding and forbidding. The daughters of these men become too perfectionist to be able to protect themselves.

But the “idealized father,” according to Murdoch, is a father who loves his daughter so much that he puts other members of the family in lower priority. In more modern terms, this father has made his daughter Luce.

This girl has now become Baba’s daughter and she feels that she should be the center of people’s attention in all environments. She considers herself a special and different girl.

But things will not go so well, the problem that will happen to Baba’s daughters in the future is that these daughters, because they had a close relationship with their father as a child, imitate their father in adulthood and gradually become supporters of men and their ideas. These women place feminine thoughts and values ​​in the lower priorities of their lives.

In a way, these girls play the role of a beloved and minor person for their father from childhood and in adulthood for other men, who may be managers, co-workers, spouses or other people.

But they consider themselves to have a lower status and power. These women are like a ladder for other men to progress. In fact, these girls no longer have an independent identity and can not comment on themselves. In this section, the author explains that Baba’s daughter can not be attached to any man due to her strong dependence on her father.

In the continuation of the first part, the author analyzes and examines all kinds of paternalistic methods by presenting his solutions and experiences.

The second part of the book, entitled “Daddy’s Daughters in the World,” tells Murdoch about the embodiment of the ancient father model in modern society. In this section, the author explains that Baba’s daughters make their father a hero who will always and everywhere protect and provide for his daughter. According to Jung’s theory, the author explains that the same ancient pattern exists for the father towards his child.

In the continuation of this section, Mordin Murak talks about the girl’s negative relationship with her mother. When a girl sharply criticizes and criticizes her mother’s lifestyle and behavior, an unpleasant relationship is formed between her and the mother.
This causes the daughter to turn a blind eye to the father’s faults and the father becomes the daughter’s superior parent and hero. The author tells a short story in each section. In this book, she tries to help Baba’s daughters learn to maintain their femininity in life independently and with an identity.

The translator of Maureen Murdoch’s book is Sarah Sargolzaei. Baba Dokhtar’s book has been published by Farhang Foundation Publications.

About Maureen Murdoch
Maureen Murdoch was born in 1945 in the United States. He is a family psychologist and teaches in different countries. Murdoch is now an international author with her famous works including “Being a Perfect Woman”, Baba’s Daughter and other books.

Most of Maureen Murdoch’s books are in the field of women.

Murdoch is a board member of several psychology institutes. His books have been very well received around the world and his works have been translated into several languages. In her books, Murdoch describes in a very effective and practical way the cases for resolving the feeling of dissatisfaction in women and moving towards femininity, living and enjoying women’s life.

In a part of Baba’s daughter, we read:
Competing with a powerful father: Power is a complex issue. Many women avoid taking positions of power because of men’s abuse of power.

Women say they do not want to be a continuation of the male model of power; A model that relies on hegemony and hierarchy and requires the classification and segregation of individuals.

However, many daughters of fathers who have strong fathers seek to imitate their fathers and to seek hierarchical power based on their abilities;

They accept that the use of power and authority is both positive and necessary for change and achieving goals. For them, power is not a dirty word. Another group of Baba’s daughters who had powerful fathers refused all forms of power for personal reasons.

Their fathers have preferred power to relationships, and so these girls have experienced the consequences of this, so they do not want to make the same choice as their father.

The father of such a girl has sacrificed him, his mother and his siblings, so he is familiar with such a situation. Even when the father has an admirable and heroic job, the father’s daughter – who is the father’s beloved daughter – becomes very sad for not having time to spend with the father; He feels like a sacrificial meat.

In a part of Baba’s daughter, we read:

Daddy’s daughter does not want to examine her relationship with her father, because she does not want to give up the fantasy of having a perfect relationship with her father. “The first danger of seeing your father as a real man with all his flaws is that it forces you to become emotionally independent of him and let go of the idea that your father can do anything,” writes Victoria Skanda in The Women and Their Fathers. Is right, does everything, and is a powerful and versatile hero.

“If the father’s daughter carefully examines her relationship with her father, she may be forced to face what she does not receive from her father and also face the emptiness of her relationship with her mother. If she stops magnifying her father, she will be forced to do so.” Discover his true self – without dependence on the father.

In the story of the Wizard of Oz, Dorothy and her dog Tutu try to get home. The house, in most mythological journeys, symbolizes the desire of all people to return to their origin;
It is a journey to know oneself, the soul and the center of one’s existence. Dorothy is a girl who does not have a father, and so she projects all her wishes, trusts and expectations on the “Big Oz”. When he meets the scarecrow, the iron man and the lion, who are looking for the brain, the heart and the courage, respectively, he convinces them that the great Oz can help them as well.

When Dorothy removes the mask from Oz’s face and realizes that he’s just a human being, not a wizard capable of doing anything, he becomes angry that Oz has been deceived and – as he thought – can not save them. .

“If you were really big and powerful, you would have kept your word,” Dorothy tells Oz. Dorothy tells Oz that he is a bad man, but Oz corrects Dorothy: “I’m a very good man – I’re just a very bad witch.

“This is where Oz plays the role of the wise father, helping Dorothy and her companions realize that what they have been looking for has been in them all this time. Facilitates in Dorothy and her companions.

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