Introducing the book Ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Laura Schlesinger
10 Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives is part of the book “The First Step to a Healthier and Better Life” by Dr. Laura Schlesinger, based on the science of psychology.
Do not do stupid things if you want your life to always be free of hatred and resentment.
Insure our lives with knowledge and knowledge about marital issues. This book is not self-help, but it helps women to be able to help themselves. Sounds a bit confusing? But please read this book. It is hoped that this book will help men and women to harmonize work and love in excellence and thus learn to live together in a happy and purposeful life.
Sometimes women knowingly use things like complaining, crying, anger, depression, anxiety, etc. to advance their ideas. They run away from the burden of responsibility and do stupid things, and the ultimate foolishness is to deprive themselves of the respect they deserve.
This book Ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships. The book discusses ten chapters with the following titles:
Stupid Dependence, Stupid Love Relationships, Stupid Forgiveness, Stupid Love and Prejudice, Stupid Cohabitation, Stupid Expectations, Stupid Imaginations, Stupid Obedience, Stupid Misery and Helplessness, and Stupid Forgiveness.
This book is not self-help, but it helps women to be able to help themselves. Sounds a bit confusing? But please read this book. It is hoped that this book will help men and women to harmonize work and love in excellence and thus learn to live together in a happy and purposeful life.
The book Ten Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives is by Laura Schlesinger, translated by Shahrooz Farhang Beygund; Do not do stupid things if you want your life to always be free of hatred and resentment. Insure our lives with knowledge and knowledge about marital issues.
In the present book, which is part of the book series “The first step to a healthier and better life”, Dr. Laura Schlesinger, based on the science of psychology, introduces and examines ten incorrect things that affect marital life. .
This book is about the problems that men and women face in order to find peace in marriage in a society. The peace with which couples can grow and achieve a spiritual connection with each other. Because this relationship is nothing but a pleasurable commitment, which each party feels towards the other party until the moment of death, and this forms the basis of a purposeful life.
Sometimes women knowingly use things like complaining, crying, anger, depression, anxiety, and so on to advance their ideas. They run away from the burden of responsibility and do stupid things, and the ultimate foolishness is to deprive themselves of the respect they deserve. In this book, Laura Schlesinger points out 10 stupid things that ruin women’s lives. We recommend all women to read the book Ten Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives.
“Ten Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives” is not a self-help book, but it does help women help themselves. Sounds a bit confusing? But please keep reading.
Sometimes, under the influence of unrealistic motives and basic necessities of life, we return to the non-existent paradise we created for ourselves as children. And on the other hand, practical work changes our options and our direction in such a way that we find it difficult to examine it, let alone be able to change it. This is an inherent part of the human condition.
But I have to admit that sometimes women knowingly use stupid things – like whining and complaining, crying, anger, depression, anxiety, food and chemicals – to advance their ideas. They escape responsibility. And they do stupid things.
An example: One person who contacted me had difficulty losing weight and told me that he had looked at all self-help books to find something like his own. He had called my app because he still could not find his case. Very good! Until he can find himself in a book (and I bet he never will) he has an excuse to “do nothing,” and that “not doing” involves not facing the fact that he is a lazy person. His goal in life may be to look like a model, which in itself is stupid and unrealistic, but he generally does not want to bother to achieve this goal.
Admittedly, there is no specific classification for traits such as laziness, immaturity, cowardice, selfishness, and sheer stupidity in the psychiatric diagnostic classification. Even if there was such a classification, it did not matter because no one cared about these issues. Do you know why?
In the attitude of being a victim, no one is guilty in any relationship;
They consider all the personality and behavioral traits I have mentioned to be characteristic of women, especially the reckless books of self-help, without any excuse, support and contribute to the emergence of such an idea; They insist on the destructive aspect of these characteristics and consider the perpetrators as “sick”. We provide a set of new “identities” – lonely, addicted, very lovable, afraid of a fruitless past to enable us to justify our weaknesses.
You are a victim until you overcome them. You do not have to be a woman with space knowledge to find out who is to blame. The ultimate foolishness is to deprive yourself of the respect you deserve: at least: If you want higher self-esteem, you have only one way, which is the oldest and safest way.
My father, who said at the dinner table one night that men could not live with a bad personal or political trait, unless women gave them such permission. He listed these characteristics: theft, addiction, war, political corruption, and more.
According to him, women’s domination of men ultimately comes down to a force: their sexual acceptance or agreement.
My father always wanted to feed me, especially at dinner, so I was heartbroken when I told him that men should not blame others for their actions. Having heard Dan’s views, I wondered if there might be some truth in my father’s views. I thought that a woman is not responsible for a man’s choices. In any case, he is responsible for his choices – which often include tolerating men’s behavior to avoid, for example, loneliness, inefficiency and incompetence.
If a woman, in the first encounter with a fool, behaves in a morbid manner, clearly and with self-confidence, then the man either goes his way and leaves or expects the woman to reject him. If, on the other hand, a woman focuses on her dependence and somehow ignores or endorses her behavior and then continues to accept the man, it is in fact giving her a strong signal of ignoring and accepting the man’s behavior.
Ironically, female psychologists are not trusted by men as male actors. If any of you gentlemen cleverly found a point in this book, you can rest assured that whatever it is, I am a woman! And ladies, be ready, for I will remove the veils and tell you the naked truth. You can accept it (or not, but you need to hear it.
So, I continue. Ladies, men do not make you miserable. You are making yourself miserable. Put all the factors of lack of self-confidence in your perspective. Life is hard. Only those who want to get out of the doubt about their relationship and the painful days they are experiencing and do not want to be a loser and even live in fear will gain a lot of self-respect. It’s that simple!
If you do not want to bother, admit that you have decided not to grow; If the change is such a headache, forget it and give yourself at least some space. If you do not like your inner weaknesses and have spent a few years healing yourself, move on with your life, If you want to help yourself more than self-help, it means that you are waiting for a miracle that you will get healing through a teacher while he is in the newspapers. This book is for you! .. And
Rebel lady! Again, do not justify your weak and wrong behavior with prejudice and self-promotion. My book is written to encourage you to show yourself what you are made of, and I guarantee you will be impressed when you show your gender.
The book Ten Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives does not talk about stages, signs, and plans, nor does it intend to heal you. It’s not a miracle cure for your painless problems.
The purpose of this book is to open your eyes and make you sensitive and intelligent.
But it is not a prescription for all women
Some of you will resist its content, even rejecting it because “looking in the mirror” does not always reflect a beautiful image of you, and therefore it is painful to face the stupidity that is your own. . You may even know that I’m right, but you are not yet consciously willing to take a realistic look.
So rest assured, kicking the fruit of my labor in the room this way and that, cursing it or simply ignoring it. Just keep it available for your own sake
Because one day, when everything gets bad enough and you feel pain and find yourself miserable and can no longer tolerate this situation, you will go to it and be with you in making the most important decisions in your life. To fight misery and misery and decide to take Annan life
So what do you expect from the book Ten Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives? it’s simple. I hope it is a springboard for your courage; That he has informed you to stop doing stupid things, and to become more alert and find a unique solution for your personal situation. Your behavior needs to change and take steps that create fear. But look at another alternative you have lived with
Until recently, I listened to many women and explored their past; Although they have been referred to medical and help centers and have therapeutic insights, they are mired in misery.
The real key to growth, as these women know but are afraid to face, lies within.
This is the key to doing something new and different for yourself. Something that will change you and elevate you to a higher place than you are.
The current feminist movement is more about blaming men or society at large, thereby ignoring the pivotal role of women in life’s troubles. Know that some of these challenges are more ugly than others. Let’s give an example: beyond what you lose or gain, there is no destiny.
With this book, I sincerely want to help you face your inner and outer demons and keep your life calm. I urge you to start building a better life and a richer experience through courage and compassion. As soon as you take the first step, you experience a “wave effect” in which strength brings better choices that lead to greater satisfaction for you and those who share in your life.
In my opinion, this book is the first stone thrown into still water to create this wave.
Table of Contents 10 Stupid Things That Destroy Women’s Lives
- Chapter One: Stupid Dependence
- Chapter Two: Stupid Love Relationships
- Chapter Three: Stupid Forgiveness
- Chapter Four: Stupid Interest and Prejudice
- Chapter Five: Stupid Cohabitation
- Chapter Six: Stupid Expectations
- Chapter 7: Stupid Imaginations
- Chapter 8: Stupid Obedience
- Chapter 9: Stupid Misery and Helplessness
- Chapter Ten Stupid Forgiveness
2- Introducing the book Ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships in Aparat