I’m OK–You’re OK


Title: Last status

Author: Thomas E. Harris

Translator: Mahtab Veisi

Publisher: Nik Farjam

Subject: Mutual Behavior, Analysis

Age category: Adult

Cover: Paperback

Number of pages: 328

Language: Farsi

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Introduction to I’m OKYoure OK  by Thomas Anthony Harris

I’m OKYoure OK is the title of a book by Thomas Anthony Harris, translated by Ismail Fassih, which has been republished this year by Farhang Nashr-e No and 342 pages.

This book is a translation of (I’m ok .You are ok.). The main topic of this book is psychoanalysis. By Thomas Anthony Harris, Staying in the Last Stand (New Publishing Culture), I Am Good, You Are Good (Namak), Staying Good (Namak) are also available in the book market.
The last situation includes all thirty years of research and research in medicine and includes all the observations and researches of the author who speaks about personal and social issues with the method (analysis of mutual behavior).

Transactional Analysis (TA) is a realistic approach because it confronts one with the fact that no matter what happens in the past, one will be responsible for what happens in the future.

In addition, it enables individuals to change so that they can develop a kind of personal control and orientation, as well as the fact that they always have the freedom to choose. Mutual behavior is defined in this theory as follows:

Any social unit is called a reciprocal behavior. Whenever a person is in contact with one or more people, sooner or later one of them says something, or shows a sign, which proves the presence of another. We call this a reciprocal motivation.

The person then reciprocates by saying or showing a sign, which in some way responds to that motivation, and that response is called reciprocal behavior.

In this book, Thomas Harris divides each person’s psyche and personality into three parts: “child”, “adult” and “parent”.
The “child” and the “parent” are stored in our brain as tapes of real experiences, including external events (ie past events) and internal events (ie our feelings), the most important of which are events that occur during the first five years of life. Have happened.

There is a third aspect to each person that is different from the other two aspects and is called “adult”.

It is through the adult that the little man can at least distinguish between life as taught and shown to him (ie, the parent) and as he felt (ie, the child) and, finally, as he himself discovered and inferred ( Ie mature) to be understood.
Parent means the taught concept of life, child means the felt concept of life and adult means the thoughtful concept of life.

This elite psychologist believes that any person with a correct understanding of these concepts, to find out which of these three parts of any behavior in him, and with this knowledge, analyze his own behavior and correct it if necessary.

In this book, he analyzes the usual human behaviors with simple and amazing examples and leads the person to a conscious and healthy behavior.

This book is the result of a search for answers for people who are always asking questions and really want to know how the human brain and mind works and why we do something and do not do the same thing.

Excerpts from The Last Status Book

Sitting down and saying we have a problem does not cure pain. The point is, most of the energy in our daily lives is spent making decisions.
Patients often say, “I can not decide on anything. Tell me what to do? “I’m all afraid that what I am doing or the decision I want to make is wrong.”
Or in cases where they do not see themselves as able to make decisions at all, they say: “I feel like I’m getting dizzy and losing my mind … I hate myself. It seems I can not do anything right. “My life has become a bunch of failure and misery.”

A society cannot change without changing its people. All our hope for the future is based on the fact that we are witnessing a change of people. How some people have done this is the good news of this book.
We hope this book is a letter of hope, and an important page in the Office of Human Survival. The best way to help children is to help parents. If a parent does not like some of the things their child does, it is not just the child who needs to change.

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